All's Quiet on the Dating Front

An update on the dating front  seems to be in order.
No dates yet. I have, however, received messages from many men on Facebook expressing interests. But, since I'm looking for something long term and local and the closest man was in Washington D.C. I don't consider this a victory, but an ego boost.

Eharmony has generated no dates, chats, or mutual interests for me. I'm kind of regetting spending my very hard earned money on the lack of results. Sure they're sent me plenty of matches, but again,  if they aren't paying members, it doesn't go any where.

I'm thinking of giving Plentyoffish.com a try. And I'll be honest, I was pulled in by the commercial. If you haven't seen it it's a split screen one side features a man and the other side a woman. The commercial follows them as they do the same things at the same time, all though separately. Implying that your other half is out there. And when I see it, every single time, I think, "You know what? He IS out there." And I completely buy into it. I'm really gullible sometimes, I know! But I think I'll give it a try, because it literarily  doesn't cost me anything. Oh the possibilities.

On the downside, I'm feeling incredibly randy. And I know that I'm not currently dating anyone, but I don't want to have this mind set when I do. Otherwise, it'll be so hard to hold true to the newly implemented "Four Month" rule. It's like in the article I scanned in Men's Health magazine, it referred  to a "Slut Gene".  Is this what men really think? That if you try to get a woman to sleep with you and she does, she's a slut AND it's genetic! So, there's no hope of finding love in a woman you slept with on the first date. Can't a girl just be interested in you enough to want to be intimate? If she is that bitch is a slut and you can't turn that ho into a housewife. It makes me glad that I'll be applying the "Four Month Rule" for the next man I date, just in case he's closed-minded enough to believe some crap like that. And if he is, he'll probably also think that I'm a prude for wanting to want four months anyway. So it's a win/win. Yay for forced sexual restrictions?